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	<pubDate>Mon, 03 Nov 2008 00:26:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Get it Over with Already</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Nov 2008 00:26:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>alissa</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m so over this election.
Don&#8217;t get me wrong, I know it&#8217;s important and will forever go down in the history books, but we&#8217;ve been hearing about it non-stop for almost 10 straight months now. I&#8217;m getting a little burnt out.
Technically, the election is over for me. I voted by mail and sent off my completed [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m so over this election.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t get me wrong, I know it&#8217;s important and will forever go down in the history books, but we&#8217;ve been hearing about it non-stop for almost 10 straight months now. I&#8217;m getting a little burnt out.</p>
<p>Technically, the election is over for me. I voted by mail and sent off my completed ballot last Monday. But the candidates don&#8217;t know that. They keep sending me campaign junk mail and filling the airwaves of the shows I watch with campaign commercials.</p>
<p>At least it ends soon.</p>
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		<title>6 Years Ago Today</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Oct 2008 15:56:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Brandon</dc:creator>
		
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		<category><![CDATA[anniversary]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Six years ago today I was on the tropical island of St. Lucia with my boyfriend, Brandon, waiting for the rain and clouds to clear so we could get married. Shortly before our scheduled ceremony, the clouds parted and wedding officiant at the resort said it was a sure sign that we were going to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Six years ago today I was on the tropical island of St. Lucia with my boyfriend, Brandon, waiting for the rain and clouds to clear so we could get married. Shortly before our scheduled ceremony, the clouds parted and wedding officiant at the resort said it was a sure sign that we were going to have lots of luck and good fortune together.</p>
<p>Looking back, I can only agree. Lots of people probably never thought we&#8217;d make it together this long. We&#8217;ve watched the majority of our friends marry and divorce over the years, but Brandon and I continue to survive.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s not always been easy. For those of you that know us well, you know Brandon and I can each be pretty stubborn, and that we&#8217;re opposites in many ways &#8230; I&#8217;m pretty focused and can be a little too intense, while Brandon&#8217;s pretty laid back and accepts that things will come with time. But we&#8217;ve found a way to make that balance, and work for us. We&#8217;ve grown through each other&#8217;s strengths and weakness and have learned how to battle through the tough times.</p>
<p>It all works because at the end of the day, he can always make me laugh and smile. Even when I really, really don&#8217;t want to. And I can make sure our finances are in order. : )</p>
<p>I love you, Brandon! Here&#8217;s to six more great years!</p>
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		<title>The Economic Times</title>
		<link>http://alissa.sheley.org/the-economic-times/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Oct 2008 19:27:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>alissa</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Despite the economic turmoil the world is currently going through, life at the Sheley household is still pretty good. That&#8217;s not to say we&#8217;ve not be hit by economic troubles, because we have. Brandon lost his contract job out of L.A. – they&#8217;re hoping to hire him back as they get closer to launching their [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Despite the economic turmoil the world is currently going through, life at the Sheley household is still pretty good. That&#8217;s not to say we&#8217;ve not be hit by economic troubles, because we have. Brandon lost his contract job out of L.A. – they&#8217;re hoping to hire him back as they get closer to launching their network, but can&#8217;t make any promises until the economy is looking a little better. Fortunately, we&#8217;d always sort of viewed his income as discretionary because our budget to coverour basic needs (house, food, utilities, etc.) is completely covered by my income. And through his last 10 months on contract, I was able to squirrel away a decent amount of savings.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m sure our retirement savings vehicles aren&#8217;t looking great right now, but I&#8217;m not even worried enough to look. I mean, it won&#8217;t do me any good. And it&#8217;s money that I&#8217;m not planning to access for at least another 30 years, so I&#8217;ve got plenty of time to make up for any big losses. But I do feel bad for those that are starting to close-in on retirement. This downturn will have a serious impact on their portfolios and will potentially cause many to have to work a couple of additional years.</p>
<p>One thing is for sure, when Brandon finds his next job, and we have a little more discrecionary spending money again, we&#8217;ll throw a good portion of it into the market – with the help of our financial advisor, of course. The world-wide panic won&#8217;t stop us, because I know that the bad times won&#8217;t last forever … and my money has more opportunity to grow if I buy when stock prices are low. : )</p>
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		<title>A Volleyball Weekend</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Sep 2008 15:45:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>alissa</dc:creator>
		
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		<category><![CDATA[Gillespie family trip]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[I got back late last night from a little family road trip. My brother, Aaron, and I traveled out to Hutchinson together to meet up with my parents and watch my sister&#8217;s volleyball team play.
My sister, Amy, is the head coach at Seminole State, a community college located in Seminole, Oklahoma. It&#8217;s about four or [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I got back late last night from a little family road trip. My brother, Aaron, and I traveled out to Hutchinson together to meet up with my parents and watch my sister&#8217;s volleyball team play.</p>
<p>My sister, Amy, is the head coach at <a title="Seminole State Volleyball" href="http://www.ssc.cc.ok.us/~adept/Athletics/AthVBpg.html" target="_blank">Seminole State</a>, a community college located in Seminole, Oklahoma. It&#8217;s about four or five hours away from Topeka, so I haven&#8217;t had the opportunity to go down and watch her team yet. But this weekend they were playing in a highly competitive tournament in Hutchinson, a reasonable 3-hour trip from Topeka.</p>
<p>Unfortunately, Amy&#8217;s girls didn&#8217;t win any of the games I got to watch (I missed their first win against Barton County). I know Amy was disappointed with that, but I was still very proud of her and the way her team played. I mean, the teams they lost to were <a title="NJCAA Volleyball National Rankings" href="http://www.njcaa.org/sports.cfm?sid=32&amp;divid=1&amp;gender=w&amp;slid=17&amp;menu=2" target="_blank">nationally ranked</a> in the top 20 in the country, including the team currently ranked first. And while they never won a match, they did play several of them very close.</p>
<p>It also seemed like luck was stacked against them as they really didn&#8217;t have many extra players on the bench. So if one of the girls started struggling, Amy didn&#8217;t have much to work with in terms of making a quick substitution. And two of her typical starters were sidelined with injury, again stacking the odds against them.</p>
<p>The whole weekend brought back lots of fond memories from my days of playing volleyball at <a title="Cowley County Volleyball" href="http://www.cowleytigers.com/volleyball/volleyballmain.html" target="_blank">Cowley County</a>. Althought my team was never nationally ranked, we did have a great time together and it was a great life experience for me.</p>
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		<title>My Acting Debut - The 2008 United Way Video</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Sep 2008 00:28:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>alissa</dc:creator>
		
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		<category><![CDATA[video]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Tons of things have happened since I last updated. Too many to list … sorry about that … so I&#8217;m making up for it by debuting my acting career in the Topeka United Way video. It&#8217;s just a short little spot, but I&#8217;m pretty sure I need to be packing my bags for L.A. : [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tons of things have happened since I last updated. Too many to list … sorry about that … so I&#8217;m making up for it by debuting my acting career in the Topeka United Way video. It&#8217;s just a short little spot, but I&#8217;m pretty sure I need to be packing my bags for L.A. : )</p>
<p>Oh yeah, Brandon&#8217;s in it too. See if you can spot him!</p>
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<p>I actually helped with the production of the video too. It was a Gimzo Pictures and jhP collaboration for this year&#8217;s local United Way campaign.</p>
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		<title>twitter updates for Alissa on 2008-08-27</title>
		<link>http://alissa.sheley.org/twitter-updates-for-alissa-on-2008-08-27/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Aug 2008 03:59:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>alissa</dc:creator>
		
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Just finished some yoga to help relieve pressure on my sciatic nerve. #
Is excited to open my packages - hooray for online shopping! #

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<li>Just finished some yoga to help relieve pressure on my sciatic nerve. <a href="http://twitter.com/alissasheley/statuses/899924800">#</a></li>
<li>Is excited to open my packages - hooray for online shopping! <a href="http://twitter.com/alissasheley/statuses/901061253">#</a></li>
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		<title>twitter updates for Alissa on 2008-08-26</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Aug 2008 03:59:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>alissa</dc:creator>
		
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Is working on sales tax. #
Is learning Flash. #
Is headed to a doctor&#8217;s visit. #

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<li>Is working on sales tax. <a href="http://twitter.com/alissasheley/statuses/898808246">#</a></li>
<li>Is learning Flash. <a href="http://twitter.com/alissasheley/statuses/898837047">#</a></li>
<li>Is headed to a doctor&#8217;s visit. <a href="http://twitter.com/alissasheley/statuses/899320140">#</a></li>
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		<title>Starting to Feel Like Home</title>
		<link>http://alissa.sheley.org/starting-to-feel-like-home/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Aug 2008 23:58:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>alissa</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[general commentary]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[new house]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Brandon and I had another nice, relatively quite weekend. We traveled to Emporia to have dinner with Brandon&#8217;s parents and Grandma Siver on Saturday evening, and pretty much spent the rest of our time working on the house. Here&#8217;s what we were able to accomplish:

Purchase &#38; assemble an extra wide file cabinet for the office.


Organize [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Brandon and I had another nice, relatively quite weekend. We traveled to Emporia to have dinner with Brandon&#8217;s parents and Grandma Siver on Saturday evening, and pretty much spent the rest of our time working on the house. Here&#8217;s what we were able to accomplish:</p>
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<li>Purchase &amp; assemble an extra wide file cabinet for the office.</li>
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<li>Organize Brandon&#8217;s closet.</li>
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<li>Purchase &amp; assemble a portable caddy to hold all of my paint for the studio.</li>
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<li>Continue to change out bathroom fixtures – towel bars, towel rings, hooks &amp; toilet paper rolls.</li>
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<li>Install new shower curtain &amp; bath mat in the main bathroom.</li>
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<li>Order curtains for the bedroom, living room, studio &amp; Brandon&#8217;s office.</li>
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<li>Start hanging artwork throughout the house.</li>
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<p>All in all, things are really starting to come together … I can feel the house transitioning into our home!</p>
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		<title>twitter updates for Alissa on 2008-08-23</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Aug 2008 03:59:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>alissa</dc:creator>
		
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Is happy my painting auctioned off for $625! #
Is heading to Emporia to eat with Brandon&#8217;s parents and grandma. #

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<li>Is happy my painting auctioned off for $625! <a href="http://twitter.com/alissasheley/statuses/896148909">#</a></li>
<li>Is heading to Emporia to eat with Brandon&#8217;s parents and grandma. <a href="http://twitter.com/alissasheley/statuses/896798517">#</a></li>
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		<title>twitter updates for Alissa on 2008-08-22</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Aug 2008 03:59:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>alissa</dc:creator>
		
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is enjoying a night of laziness. #
Is excited for tonight&#8217;s Works of Heart Auction! #
Is working on some Flash. #

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<li>is enjoying a night of laziness. <a href="http://twitter.com/alissasheley/statuses/894985823">#</a></li>
<li>Is excited for tonight&#8217;s Works of Heart Auction! <a href="http://twitter.com/alissasheley/statuses/895497399">#</a></li>
<li>Is working on some Flash. <a href="http://twitter.com/alissasheley/statuses/895826154">#</a></li>
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